Why are guys so confusing??

lol I JUST asked the same question a couple of weeks ago, phrased the same way and in the exact same situation. you know what? this guy's in love with you. well maybe not that deep...but anyways, he likes you, he's smitten with you, you've blown him away, but he's too shy/nervous to say it. He likes to look at you and imagine from afar, but he doesn't want to make it obvious nor does he want you to know, which is why he keeps looking away when you catch him looking. It's probably an ego thing-he doesn't want to seem sensitive or romantic, which probably equates to being weak, which guys hate. He likes talking about you with other people because you're always on his mind, but your actual presence makes him nervous, and his way to deal with it is to pretend you're invisible, so that he doesn't have to go through the awkward torture of talking to you. and he's too shy to carry things on with you, as he might want to. so...why don't you do the job for him? talk to him first, make him more comfortable around you. he never will be entirely comfortable, but he will feel more at ease, especially knowing that you're on talking terms. talk about things you guys have in common, or his interests. ask him out one day-he would be so grateful. that is, if you like him yourself. :)